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By: Jeanne

Jeanne — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 00:57:05 +0000

I agree. Some people just don’t care about getting dressed up every day, and it shouldn’t be assumed that they have “let themselves go.” Also, everyone’s definition of style is different. Some women may never wear make-up or heels, but that doesn’t mean they don’t put thought into what they wear. Their style is just different from the mainstream. Of course there are people who just throw on clothes and don’t care about what they wear at all. If they’re happy doing that, I don’t see what the problem is.

I don’t see why not getting dolled up to run an errand or bum around the house is seen as a sign of self-neglect. I enjoy clothes, make-up, shoes, etc., but I don’t usually spend a lot of time on my appearance if I’m just taking a brief trip to the grocery store. Not everyone feels that it’s important to be dressed up everywhere they go, even people who may enjoy dressing up on other occasions. It’s just a matter of personal preference.

If spending a lot of time on your appearance everyday is important to you, that’s fine. If it’s not, that’s fine too. Wear what makes you happy. I wish people would stop judging making assumptions about others based on their clothing choices.

By: cheryl fenton

cheryl fenton — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 15:28:55 +0000

i’ll be sure to stop by often. but for now i have to go. i think my kid is running with scissors. i wouldn’t know, since I was doing my hair. HAHA

By: Super Kawaii Mama

Super Kawaii Mama — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 02:00:38 +0000

Bridget: I’m so pleased to hear you say that you did this for you, as really, that is the most critical psychological point in a decision like this. I admire you for taking matters into your own hands and regaining that lost sense of self. Kudos!

By: Super Kawaii Mama

Super Kawaii Mama — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 01:57:10 +0000

Cheryl: Oh Cheryl, I love your comment!”As if I’m clearly neglecting my child who is licking an outlet as I put on lipstick or, God forbid, a dress” That made me laugh out loud as it seems to be what so many people think and some even have the nerve to say! Hope to see you again here.

By: Bridget

Bridget — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 01:42:05 +0000

Ok, update since last comment in Nov. Guess I was simply mad as hell. Well, I took as step toward being Me. I am now one week post-op with my new boobs! Merry Christmas to me! Best money I could ever finance! I’ve never bought anything for myself, not even my car. So…I’m building my credit and my self esteem. Went from a 34AA to a 36C and very happy. This may not be for everyone but I’m happy and I’ve made a step toward regaining my identity while retaining my happiness as a mother and wife.